Meet The Instructors
Gordon Martin
Several years ago, when
I started teaching the Redirecting
Children's Behavior course, I knew that I was qualified. I love
children, I love working with them, and I love helping families create
more peace. So when I was writing this "bios" about who I was, I set out
to prove to you, the reader, that I had the experience. Recently, I've
come to understand that much more important than my qualifications are
my motives, my passion and my beliefs. Here's what I now want to tell
you about me, and about my WHY in life.
I
KNOW
that as parents we can do it better.
Under very rare circumstances however, does the thought cross my mind
that "wow, that guy/woman is a terrible parent." I'm acutely aware of a
reality in society that Americans are taught to be very busy.
Spending more quality time with our children is something that we would
do if we could just figure out how, right? Well, I promise you, that not
only is it possible, but it can be done in a way that will save you time
and help you want to be
with your more loving, cooperative
children. And oh by the way, as an added bonus, your children will have
higher self esteem, be more successful, and will be more productive contributors in our
society.
About my motives:
I've learned that there are easier, more effective ways to interact with
our children, spouses, bosses, co-workers, and many others we come into contact with
on a daily
basis. Some of this knowledge comes from studying and training,
but much more comes from experience AND observation (and being honest
with myself). What that means is that when struggling with my
seven-year-old about picking up his room, eating, bedtime, etc. I
discover (figure out) that he's being uncooperative for a reason
completely unrelated to those activities. MANY of you can relate to what
I'm referring to. Maybe he's mad because of something I said/did, or
something that happened at school. Perhaps he's feeling overwhelmed or
pressured. I feel VERY PASSIONATE
about being able to share my acquired
ability of "listening" with more than just my ears. I can help you with
these specific challenges and many more, similarly disruptive behaviors.
In the RCB classroom
environment, we get very hands on. We speak of techniques that you can
use to redirect attention behavior, power struggles, your child's
feelings of inadequacy and sometimes outbursts of anger, something we
refer to commonly as revenge. Every bit as important as these
techniques are the concepts you'll learn to help you AVOID the vast
majority of these typical conflicts. Truly, you will be able to AVOID
most of these unwanted and unnecessary behaviors. Please take the
initiative to make these positive changes. Fifteen hours is a small
price to pay for accomplishing what you will by attending the RCB class.
If, however, you are presently in a situation that you feel just
doesn't allow for that kind of commitment, I offer individual parent
coaching and have helped parents achieve tremendous results in a very
short time (I was even
called a miracle worker once - a wee bit exaggerated if you ask me, but
I felt pretty good!). Please call me at
727-504-4722 to help me understand your particular situation. We'll put together a
game plan for you and your family!
Best of luck.
Yours in service,
Gordon Martin, CPE
Gordon Martin works with parents and children in several formal & informal settings.
He is a certified Parent Educator with the International network for
Children & Families. He holds his certification with the same
Organization for the "Redirecting for a Cooperative Classroom" course.
Gordon was a kindergarten & 1st grade Sunday School Teacher at First Unity Church in St. Petersburg
for five years.
For seven years now, he has had the pleasure of watching
expectant fathers (rookie dads) lose a great deal of their nervousness
and seen new fathers (veteran dads) beam with pride and joy, as the two
groups get together WITH BABIES (ranging from 1 to 6 months old) and
swap stories, share ideas, talk about expectations and experiences, but
MOST IMPORTANTLY, they get very hands on. Literally. Changing diapers,
feeding them, burping them, calming them when they are crying, holding
and loving them as they stare up into daddy's eyes (and the other guys
eyes as long as he looks even a little bit like dad!!!) or just sleep in
their arms. Gordon LOVES the fact that he gets PAID for coming in and
seeing the new babies each and every month! Officially, he is the Facilitator
for the
"Bootcamp for New Dads Program"
held at Morton Plant Hospital in Clearwater
and in Trinity, two times a month.
He teaches the
Redirecting Children's Behavior (RCB) course in Clearwater, St. Petersburg,
Tampa and on-site anywhere in Tampa Bay (including Pasco County) for groups of 10 or more.
"I come from a family of six children and have twelve nieces and nephews. In many ways, I was redirecting children's behavior before I knew what it was all about! BUT...I will be the first to admit that the experiences with my own two sons have been invaluable to help me put into context what I teach. I will also admit that while I have never spanked either of my boys, there have truly been moments of intense frustration. After speaking with a mother recently about the subject of spanking and corporal punishment, however, I realize that NEVER spanking my children is a choice that I'm committed to. If you decide to use spanking as a form of discipline, get clear that it is not carried out in frustration. Also, please know that the philosophy behind RCB suggests that we can get more effective results without spanking!
"Adults" regularly tell me that I relate well to kids, or that kids love me. I KNOW that it's a transferable skill, teaching children respect. Would you consider 15 hours of your life to be too much time if you thought that in that time you could create more peace and cooperation and higher self-esteem for your children? If you're ready, I am. I will give nothing but my best effort. Promise."
Please send class or workshop registration & checks to:
Gordon Martin
3055 Kapok Kove Drive
Clearwater, FL 33759
Gordon & Simon Dunsmoor
Redirecting Children's Behavior of Tampa Bay
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